Another blog I used to read did a quick “where am I at?” post once a month… And I love it. It’s so simple, and yet – a great check in. So, I’m going to give it a try! Here goes:
coming to terms with being a stay at home mama of two littles. One was work, and fun, and surprising, and manageable. Two is different. A handful, chaos, frustrating, and exhausting… Finding the joy takes a little more effort from me somedays. But I’m lucky – I have two adorable goofballs. We’ll get there.
feeling burnt out. Busy holiday weekend. Both kids still wake up at night. The two year old was up to his new tricks today – busy, busy, busy. It was a tough day of balancing discipline and compromise. Ugh. He’s smart, persistent, energetic, talkative, and cute. Sometimes its hard to be mad… And sometimes it’s hard not to!
looking out my window. Storms are rolling in. The birds are getting their last snacks from our feeders before racing off to hide from the winds and the rain… It’s suddenly much darker… Which only makes me more sleepy!
starting to get back on track. Looking for the magic in each day. Recording those moments in pictures, Facebook posts, and journal entries. I learned from Sawyer’s baby days how much those little memories mean to me… I love looking back on them already! (And so does he! He looks through my pictures and asks me to tell him the stories… Pretty sweet.)
laughing at both the kids. As exasperating as they can be, they’re quite the team. Today, Sawyer was pretending to give a concert in our living room. He’s standing on the ottoman, holding his “guitar,” talking through the intro of his song, then
singing screaming some unintelligible nonsense while jumping around. Ruby, who I thought would be terrified by this display, proceeds to bounce and clap, cheer and laugh when we was done. Oh brother. They’re quite the team.
squeezing in a little quiet before dinner. By the time Hubby got home today, I was done. Fuse was short. I just needed a break. He took the kids for a walk, and in a moment I’ll make dinner. But the last 45 minutes was just what I need to recharge before dinner, baths, and bedtime…
And… Storms brought a power outage during story time We lost power for 16 hours! I’m finishing this post the next day. Ugh.
believing life is good. Even through the storms. Literally, and figuratively.
thinking I’d love a family vacation at a cabin this summer… On the water. Something to soothe my soul and nerves… (Not likely to happen. But I can daydream!)
knowing Ruby is almost on the move! She’s rolling, rocking, pulling herself partway up on things… Life is about to get even crazier. (I’m kind of excited for her to chase Sawyer around… Is that mean of me?! Hee hee.) Time to start contemplating child-proofing, again.
fighting – or arguing – with the 2.5 year old all. day. long. He’s an emotional mess these days. One moment he wants to do something for himself, then he screams and throws something because he wants mommy to do it… And then, regardless of whether I do it, he will cry and scream for the next 30 minutes. Somedays, life seems impossible for him AND me. He’s feeling a lot of things these days. And they’re big feelings. And apparently, I’m the wrong person to help him through them… So we sit at an impasse most of the day. It’s exhausting to say the least.
thanking God, everyday, for these kiddos. They make me crazy. Like, somedays, certifiably crazy. But… They can be sweet, cute, funny, amazing, lovable little creatures, too. I’ll keep them – God help me!
being me. The good days and the not so good days… Pluggin’ along.